Archive for December, 2009

Affecting Emotions

Because Facebook adapts a free-flowing information environment, some uses it to target on other’s emotional depression. Others send out procrastination just to bring down a specific person or even bully a student in the lower years. Targeting the emotions may cause a negative attitude towards a person’s social relationship, physical activity, and academic issues.

Affecting Privacy

Cyber stalking is one thing. Barging into someone’s privacy is another. Come to think about it, cyber stalking and invading one’s privacy goes hand in hand. A person who is engaged in cyber stalking tends to know everything about a person and uses it firsthand. A lot of a user’s personal information is so accessible that almost everyone, even those who know you but you don’t know of, can view it.

Facebook is stalker heaven. Remember the ex-boyfriend that never really got over you?

well your every move is now open to him with just a few clicks and a Facebook account.To share in the benefits of a community, we must share a part of ourselves. If we use sound judgement on what information we publicize, the danger of an online stalking, which is already small to begin with, becomes negligible.

Facebook causes us social stress and emotional pain

This New York Times article describes how people endure greater social stress and emotional pain as a result of Facebook. Many users may feel pressured into accepting “friend invites” from people whom they may not regard as friends. Others are pressured into a popularity contest where they must madly gather as many friends as possible so as not to lose to their peers. And finally, Facebook makes breaking up extremely hard to do.

Facebook users describe in gory detail how losing an ex becomes a public embarrassment because now, it is plastered all over Facebook. To add insult to injury, the victim is tortured with minute-to-minute updates of their ex’s successful social calendar.

The above information is all from different websites. You can google it as well.

Last but not least, from my point of view… Facebook is sucks a problem! Giving you many problems as well for your friends, relation, and colleagues. whatever post u did, people can watch u. even a single comment.

As i know, i got heard a company’s boss sack his staff because she post in her wall something bad abt her company and she forgot that she had add her boss as her friend. so sad.

Husband-wife fight just because using facebook, without respect her or she  (addicted).

lovers clash because someone who new in his or her profile comment and chatting alot with he or she and get caught.

Even friends in facebook fighting and arguing for some miss understanding between them. and also for the activity tag few 10 to 20 people in 1 picture and only 3 or 4 of them talking shit. better u jz tag who u wan to comment and argue with.

Posting stupid shouts in Facebook is another problem. Yes, some people just post it to knock someones head indirectly or make them feel quilty. After that they will start argue and argue until they make a border line between them. Facebook is not making friends, but friends comes enemy. there are some even delete their  facebook account just to avoid futher problems in future between thier friends, family, and colleagues.

Facebook is more feature than friendster, but facebook also give more problem than frienster.

Facebook is just a social network, dont missued it or addicted to it. I think there more other important work than using this facebook.

regards,

Eyezmachi